I am new to home brewing, but I am diving into the deep end and excitedly awaiting delivery of an all-grain setup (boiler, sparging arm and mash tun).

I have a few questions for the more experienced on here and would welcome any help:
I haven't got a separate HLT, so would it be better to use a fermenting bin to hold the sparging liquor while I run off into the boiler, or better to run off into the fermenter and then run it all back into the boiler after sparging? Any other techniques I haven't considered?
I'm a bit nervous about lifting vessels full of hot liquid, but you appear to need several levels to allow all the various run-offs - what is the best method?
Finally, I have Graham Wheeler's 'Home Brewing' from the library, but this is nearly 20 years old. Are there any more recent books that cover the subject in the same detail? Will CAMRA's Complete Home Brewing, due out in September be an updated version of this?
Cheers all.